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I never thought proposing to my girlfriend of many years would turn into as much of a game as it was, but I’m a social gamer, so I suppose I should have expected nothing less.
When Rebecca and I started dating, we played Words with Friends frequently. Affectionately, we called it “Words,” and I admit, she beat my pants off regularly though I often claimed to let her win. There’s something to be said for flirting online and the way it adds to the flirting we experience in real life. In fact, I have many fond memories of passing the phone back and forth during those times when couples find themselves waiting around for a table or a food order or to board a plane—the game inspired us to talk about each other and life and we fell in love, in part, because of it.
There came a time in my life, and I feel so lucky to have gotten there, when I simply knew that I wanted to spend my life with Rebecca as my wife. But, since I don’t do anything the normal way, I contacted Zynga, creators of Words With Friends, and asked if they could help me with my proposal.
I’m a geek. A gamer. A developer. Fortunately, Rebecca understands my passion, my dreams and supports my goal to create applications that make a difference in people’s lives. She’s put up with a lot over the years as I’ve created my own companies, especially of late; my brand new mobile gaming venture, MobileFWD, is intended to mash social and trivia together into an app we’re calling Trivi.al “Clash of the Craniums.” All the flirting we did from Words even inspired new flirting features we’re developing in our app coming out spring 2012.
From my initial request, Zynga bent over backwards to assist. Paul Bettner, VP/GM at Zynga, loved my idea so much that he made T-shirts to commemorate my big night. There’s something to be said for technology these days; when you can reach out with an idea and get a response… well, that’s why I love the world we live in.
So, with my “Words” gimmick in place, I ordered a ring. And, little did I suspect, that’s when the real gaming began. After a week I followed up with the jeweler about the ring, no luck. It was late to arrive. Rebecca and I were scheduled to leave town and I wanted to propose before we went away. I tracked my delivery by phone and online trying to predict when it would arrive at the jeweler. As our departure date grew nearer, I could see that I had no choice but to intercept the package at the UPS shipping center; it wasn’t going to make it to the jeweler until after we’d left town. But, the ring somehow made it onto the UPS delivery truck before I could meet it at the shipping center. We called the driver and arranged a meeting, but it was 30 minutes across town. I broke a lot of laws (and the stoplights cooperated) getting to the destination early, but I’d still missed the driver. I then called a friend at UPS who got on the phone with the driver and arranged another location for us to meet. This time I was successful in the exchange, but I had a soon-to-be fiancé who’d become quite incensed at the fact that I was running late for dinner.
Speaking of words, I took them on the chin from her when I got home. I thought, if I could pour her a glass of wine and ask her to play a round of Words with me, maybe I could diffuse the situation. Thank my lucky stars, she agreed. She went first and placed “Vat” for seven points. When she handed the phone back to me I brought up the special board that Zynga had created—off the “M” it spelled “Marry” horizontally and “Me” vertically—got down on one knee and proposed. She cried. We got engaged!
It was one of the greatest days of my life, so far. I can’t thank those who helped pull it off enough: the jeweler, UPS, the UPS driver, Zynga, my friends… the list goes on. Rebecca and I got to know each other through gaming, and on the night of December 21st we both won. I can only hope that my work at MobileFWD, like Zynga, can have such a positive impact on people’s lives.
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